Chinese idiom · 成语
塞翁失马
Meaning
A misfortune may be a blessing in disguise.
Character by character
Origin and story
Philosophical fableA family living near the frontier loses a horse in the Renjian (人間) chapter of Huainanzi (淮南子). When people offer sympathy, the father questions whether the loss might yet bring good fortune. Months later, the horse returns with fine horses from beyond the border. Neighbors celebrate, but he wonders whether this gain might bring trouble instead.
His son enjoys riding and falls, breaking his thigh. Once again, the father refuses to judge the event as simply bad luck. When fighting reaches the frontier, the son’s disability keeps him from combat, and father and son survive. The fable presents fortune and misfortune as continually changing into one another. The familiar modern use emphasizes a setback that turns out well, without promising that every misfortune must have a happy ending.
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In everyday life
没租到那间办公室，后来却找到了更合适的地方，也算是塞翁失马。
We missed out on that office, but later found a more suitable place—a blessing in disguise.
Use it when an apparent loss leads to a benefit, or when reminding someone that the outcome is not yet clear.