Chinese idiom · 成语
推心置腹
Meaning
Place heart in another’s belly; absolute trust.
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Origin and story
Historical accountAfter Liu Xiu defeats the Tongma forces, the Eastern Han records describe him accepting their surrender and granting positions to their leaders. Distrust remains on both sides. He tells the surrendered men to return to their camps and then enters to inspect them with a light mounted escort, demonstrating that he does not expect treachery.
The men respond that the Prince of Xiao has placed his sincere heart inside others' breasts, asking how they could fail to give themselves in return. The later idiom compresses that vivid declaration. It means treating someone with wholehearted sincerity and trust, not literally sharing an organ or merely exchanging confidential gossip.
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In everyday life
我们推心置腹地谈了一晚,终于解开了多年的误会。
We talked openly and sincerely all evening and finally cleared up a misunderstanding that had lasted for years.
Wholehearted sincerity and trust in dealing with someone.