Chinese idiom · 成语
温文尔雅
Meaning
Gentle and refined; cultured elegance.
Character by character
Origin and story
Literary talePu Songling uses the expression in the story 'Chen Xijiu' in Strange Tales from a Chinese Studio. Chen, a scholar's impoverished son, is arrested after a robber implicates him. The prefect is surprised that someone with such gentle, cultivated manners could be a thief. Further questioning reveals that the accusation was arranged through bribery, and Chen is cleared.
This is a Qing literary attestation, not a report from the History of the Later Han. The phrase describes a courteous, refined manner. Although Chen is innocent within this particular tale, polished manners alone are not reliable evidence of someone's honesty.
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In everyday life
新来的老师温文尔雅,回答问题时总是很有耐心。
The new teacher is gentle and courteous, and always answers questions patiently.
A compliment for a person's refined, considerate manner.